I was in a six year relationship that recently ended. I have decided that I am gonna do something different if and when I decide to get in another relationship. The reasoning is that if I do something different, then the outcome will be different. I made a list of 10.
#10 Fun & Enjoyment- If I'm gonna be with someone, I gotta have fun with them. If this person stressess and never seems to release or enjoy themselves unless they're drunk or high; RUN!!! I don't think I could spend more time trying to make someone happy. The goal now, is to find someone that is happy and make them happier. Also, if someone finds no enjoyment or even interest in things that I like; I doubt it will work. Sometimes opposites attract and sometimes opposites are just opposites. Hopefully, Free, Serena Williams, or Deelishis can go 10 for 10. Then they'd be perfect inside and out. But that's just my poinion though, and who the hell am I?
Sunday, March 15, 2009
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Amen. Most relationships I've been in seems to end up in lies, cheating and wasted time plus energy. I'm doing alot of things different as I open myself up to dating.
Back on the dating scene is no joke, but I made up in my mind that I'm going to have fun dating. No more whining, crying and fussing over spilled milk. If he's not that into me, oh well. That's his lost and someone elses gain.
My list is a little bit shorter than 10 things that I'm going to do different.
I have 3 main things, that I'm doing different. One thing for sure, what I been doing over the past few years got me absolutely, no where.
I'm happy now that I've set myself free. My lyfe is fullfilled, very busy and complete. Complete in knowing who I am as a woman, what I want from a man and this time around, I'm just not going to settle. I want the real thing.
Good luck on your search!
....SOUND LIKE STELLA LOOKING TO GET HER GROOVE BACK
Yea, I'm getting it back. Its Stella's time and its been a long time coming.
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